Denial..It works for everyone...

We only see what we want to see...and beleive what we want to believe..and it works...We lie to oursevelvs so much that after a while ,the lies start to seem like the truth...We deny so much that we cant recognise the truth right in front of our faces...Most of the time, we know what the reality is..we just coose to ignore it....denials works for us most of the time....

Sometimes reality has a way of sneaking up and biting us in the ass, and when the dam bursts, all you can do is swim..The world of pretend is a cage , we can only pretend to lie to ourselves for so long ..we are tired, we are scared, denying it doesnt change the truth...Sooner or later, we have to put aside our denial and face the world, head on, guns blazing...
so how do u keep from drowning when the dam breaks ?

My point is whoever said"what you dont know cant hurt you was a complete and total moron" cause for most people i know ; not knowing is the worst feeling in the world..As grown ups we have to know..we have to know what it takes ...to take care of the people dependent on us ..to take care of each other..

Eventually we have to even figure out how to take care of ourselves..But...As human beings ; sometimes its better to stay in the dark ...because in the dark there may be fear ; but there is also hope......

P.S. Instead of the song of the day, i choose today to tell everyone somethhing i took a long time to learn " Never, i mean never ; cheat on the peson whom you love ...believe me you dont know what you are missing ". If this does not make sense to you right now...then u are doing ok....