Recently we and a friend of ours happened to be in Purple Haze which is one of the hmm.. ok ok happening page 3 type pubs in the city , sipping on our regular fruit punch and then she spots him . Walks in with a typical delhi melbourne swagger and they talk , have sex and they are all going great with each other.And the moment she wanted to move from the here and now to the long and forever and then realisation strikes him of wedding-parenthood-children-schools-office-curry-tiffen box- golf- home-old age-death and then he walks out on her.
Later she walks in one fine day at my place with the delhi swagger and i am like "Everything good between you folks ?" and she is like "We are yet to talk about it tonight " , and the evening ends up with a pleasant dinner to a very beautiful morning when the uproar breaks out...
She walks in the next day to his place the next day morning to discuss "US" and he tells her that men have walls and he has Great Wall of China and he walks out on her, recently she called me up and said " Rahul stood me up again last night , we were supposed to go out for Ocean's 13.. when i woke up in the morning he left a note "Happy Birthday !!, Sorry can't make it tonight , busy at work " beside a gift , which when i opened was huge ugly candle "...
I at that moment started wondering why do we men take more refuge in " E "- escapism silly, not ecstasy , maybe its the facing of responsiblities , or its getting up to a differnt morning to the face of the same person...after all we do hate routine in all phases and walks of our life isnt ?...or maybe its because free ass is so easily available these days..
A post after a time i lost count off and in a time that i am finally happy of myself and the enviroment around me , Happy Friendship Day folks and everyone mast maja maadi ( Bangalore style , oh man i love this place , ha ha )
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I feel its neither Ecstasy nor Escapism...Its something else called "PRIORITY"...All of us have our own priorities...and when we dont prioritize ryt things at the ryt times then we end up in a lifeless state...As a matter of fact, it does not only happen with guys but also with girls...Ultimately its U who has to decide on issues and prioritize... so it becomes very simple wen we think 4 a sec and give importance to the ryt thing at that time...On yo gals b day, office or party? Party of course...On yo gals b day yo friend met wit an accident...office or party or hospital? hospital isnt it? Relationships r easy to maintain this way...but relationships(love) or success s yet again yo priority
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